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A guide to the art of asking questions to which you do not already know the answer—Humble Inquiry—as a way to build trust, deepen relationships, and make sense of an increasingly complex, interdependent world.

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What it’s about

In a culture that prizes telling, winning arguments, and demonstrating expertise, Edgar and Peter Schein argue that our compulsion to tell is quietly sabotaging our relationships, our teams, and our ability to see reality clearly. Humble Inquiry is both an attitude and a practice: the gentle art of drawing others out, listening deeply, revealing something of ourselves, and responding in ways that build openness and trust. Drawing on decades of organizational psychology and vivid stories from health care, technology, the military, and everyday family life, the authors show how 'Here-and-now Humility'—the recognition that we depend on others for information and task completion—can transform transactional exchanges into personal, resilient relationships. In a VUCA world where interdependent tasks require reliable communication across hierarchical boundaries, this book teaches leaders and everyone else how to slow down, ask better questions, and unlearn the cultural scripts of do and tell that keep us ignorant and disconnected.

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Who it’s for
A leader, manager, professional, or ordinary person who wants more productive relationships, clearer understanding of what is really going on, and to be genuinely helpful.
The problem
Conversations go wrong, important information is withheld, and interdependent tasks fail because people tell rather than ask. They feel disconnected, mistrusted, or frustrated, and worry that they are missing what really matters.
The plan
  1. Learn to see, feel, and curb the impulse to tell or lash out.
  2. Build situational awareness—know why you are in the conversation.
  3. Practice Here-and-now Humility by recognizing your dependence on others.
  4. Ask open, humble questions and listen deeply to how others respond.
  5. Reveal something of yourself to invite reciprocal openness and build Level 2 relationships.
The payoff
Better conversations, deeper trust, and open communication. · Resilient, adaptable Level 2 relationships up, down, and across the organization. · Safer, more effective task performance in complex interdependent work.

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